- “There’s a natural tendency in most of us to compare ourselves with other people, to say things like, “I wish I was as good as Becky” or “I feel like I’m trying my best to live the gospel, but I’m not even in the same spiritual ballpark with Charles.” We must keep in mind always that our Heavenly Father does not grade on a curve. He does not and will not compare his children in terms of their individual righteousness or sinfulness.” Coming to Know Christ, Robert L. Millet