- “Family money should have nothing to do with the love between two individuals who wish to marry. When discussing this idea with future in-laws, it is important to emphasize that, even with a prenuptial, everyone will benefit from this type of financial wealth preservation. There can be trips, vacation homes, educational trusts for children, and retirement security, for example. The prenuptial doesn’t take any of that away. Additionally, the new couple will have the full benefits of the wealth that they create together, and this should be seen as a priority.” Wealth in Families Third Edition (Charles W. Collier) Page 50